Here are Ten Pros and Cons to Know About Children Allowances
Sunday, September 27th, 2009Brought to you by: Breez DeGuzman
As a parent, you know your children are not shy about asking for money. Some families give their children money when they ask, others give their children allowances. If you don’t currently give your children one, here are ten things to know about allowances.
Pros for giving your child an allowance:
* You may want to teach your children how to handle money; the earlier you start the better. By beginning to teach children about money at an early age, they’ll be more teachable and less likely to question your teaching.
* Having their own money will teach children to be responsible with their money. If they’re not, they face the unpopular consequences if they spend too much or lose it.
* Parents can breathe a sigh of relief because children won’t bother them for money if they have their own.
Cons of giving your child an allowance:
* Your children may think they can buy whatever they want because the money is theirs. This may mean they buy things their parents don’t approve of, which could result in stress parents may not want.
* Your children will probably complain that their allowance isn’t enough and ask you to raise it.
1. Why give an allowance? Having an allowance can be effective for teaching your children about money.
2. What can it teach? Allowances given to pre-teens and teens can be used to help finance their college career if they choose to go. By giving them an allowance, you give them the opportunity to open a saving account and checking account, both of which will be important when they leave home.
3. When to give it? A good time to start giving an allowance is when your children begin learning about money in school. Remember, if they can’t count it, they won’t know how much items cost and how much to use to pay for them.
4. How will it be used? You may not expect them to pay for school lunches, but you do want them to have the benefit of actually paying for some items with their own money.
5. What about saving? Explain that they will be expected to save a portion of their allowance. This teaches them the importance of saving, and expecting them to put something in savings first will help them learn this.
6. Will it be tied to chores? You will want to choose between linking your child’s allowance with doing household chores. That decision, obviously, is one you’ll want to make as a family.
7. How much do you give? You’ll want to consider your family’s financial situation, how much you can afford to give, and what your children generally ask you for money for. Some reports say the average allowance for 6-8 year olds is around $5 a week, $7 for children 9-11, and $15 for 12-17 year olds.
8. How often do you give it? Depending on how often you’re paid, you may not be able to give a weekly allowance. Also, as children get older, you may want to give them an allowance on a monthly basis so they learn to budget their money.
9. What else can they learn? When you give your child an allowance, you’re teaching them about spending wisely. It’s much easier for them to learn about losing $5 now rather than $500 when they’re older. An allowance gives your child a chance to make mistakes now when the stakes aren’t so serious.
10. What about docking their allowance? There may come a time when your child does something that makes you want to keep their allowance to teach them a lesson. If you choose to do this, don’t overuse this technique. It may cause resentment in your children.
Allowances and whether to give them is something each family will want to decide on their own. These ten things to know about allowances are by no means complete, but some things you may want to consider when deciding if they are right for your family.


